Victim Series: Make The Player Fall In Love With You

Here's the personality profile on a player--and how to make them fall in love with you. Players could be anything or anyone. They usually mess with people's emotions and minds. They want to conquer. Either physically, psychologically, emotionally. Etc. Or all of the above. But they are playing you. They aren't exactly genuine. But they can be fantastic at playing people's emotions to get what they want.

Ah players. You know of them. They are usually associated with men. But women are just great players. But we aren't talking about gender here. We are talking about players.
Description:
Players could be anything or anyone. They usually mess with people's emotions and minds. They want to conquer. Either physically, psychologically, emotionally. Etc. Or all of the above. But they are playing you. They aren't exactly genuine. But they can be fantastic at playing people's emotions to get what they want.
Psychological Causes:
There is no sense of envying the typical player. Why? Because the psychological reason(s) they are that way (a player) is because of one or the following:

1. They get that validation knowing that they have many lovers.
2. It is the only way they have a sense of self worth.
3. Their only source of power
4. They are bored. But usually if you are bored and confident you wouldn't be playing people.
5. Social approval. If lots of people like this person, this has a psychological response from lots of other people that make them un/consciously start liking you too.
6. They were conditioned that way and don't know any better. Most players do but don't care.
7. To prevent themselves from getting hurt. If they have other options it doesn't matter anyways.

So as you can see, if you look beyond all the bullshit the reasons why players are players is because well to sum it up.... they're insecure. In fact, probably more insecure then you actually believe.
How to get them to obsess over you:

1. understand why they're a player. Everyone has different reasons why they do things. Find out theirs. I'll write a post about that later on. Is it a wall? Is it because they are afraid of being hurt. Whatever it is, find out first.
2. Never state your intentions.
3. Give them unconscious mixed signals. Have flirty eyes, give them an ambiguous compliment. That could either be an insult or a compliment.
4. Bruise their ego a bit. Not too much. You want them to get to a point where they feel they are being able to conquer you. Then you pull back. So when I mentioned you need to understand why they are a player. Because whatever wall it is that is up, you must bruise their ego according to their reasons for being a player. For example. Youngin needed verbal validation. So when he asked me questions which were obvious he was seeking that verbal validation (to feel like he is actually significant. Which he is not.) I'll be hot and cold. I'll just flat out say something along the lines of, or imply that I don't give a shit. Or when "he blamed me for getting him sick" I said "sorry. Kind of. Then I would just laugh." But he then proceeds to overcompensate. So watch out for their actions. Not words. So in essence, bruise their ego according to their fears. And psychological weaknesses.
5. Repeat  and rinse. Remember, it is all about timing. Once you see they are starting to believe they have you, that is when you need to pull back. This is when you need to bruise their ego. And once you see they are starting to lose hope and potentially ready to give up (if that is their style) then give them that hope that they can potentially win you over.

Archetypes that match the player:
It is usually the innocent ones. And the sassy ones. And sexual ones.
The innocent because they believe that if this person is innocent it gets their hopes up. Because they think it'll be easy.
The sassy ones because the sassy ones are usually independent and are the ones who bruise his or her ego. But they keep coming back for more.
The sexual ones because it stimulates their imagination. You don't even need to have sex with them. Just stimulate their imagination ambiguously.
A combination of all is nessecary. And the perfect timing. During a certain time you will have to play the innocent. During a certain time you will have to play the sassy. Etc. You get the point.
Things to avoid:

• dont be overly sexual. Be innocent, and spirituality sexual. Like a sexy look in your eye. Not your tits popping out. Or if you're a guy, don't be a god damn creep.
• Do not VERBALLY state what your intentions are or what you think of themm if they ask you say something like "i think you are a nice person"
• Just overall DO NOT be obvious. Do not verbally state anything. Just do it through your actions.

In the course I am working on, I give exact details. On how you can tell they are the player. Scripts they use. Perfect timing etc. How you can get into character.
Be on the lookout!
Remember!! You're the coach. And they're the pathetic players.
Be on the lookout for more victim series.
Xoxo
Scarlett. ♡♡♡☆☆