You guys come to me complaining about the same mean/bitch/stubborn/psychopathic bitch, but when asked about your previous crushes, and it's the same pattern. So consider this: you love being treated like shit. You get high off it, you live off being treated like shit.
Let's dig deeper into this mean girl you're obsessed with and how you can make them obsessed:
The seemingly shy girl
She either grew up reserved, or has this person inside her that's suppressed, and it's *dying* to come out. If you're looking for proof this is true, look at every shy girl out there; she's always holding back. She's either worried about people judging her for her true self, or her true self is this extravagant freak--provoke that suppressed side.
This one is obvious. We know why people become "bitches," but if you think you can make the bitch fall in love with you--look for her soft side, then STRIKE. The bitch wants to come off as HARD. Let her think she's a tough bitch, but continue to trigger her soft side. However I would strongly warn against calling her out on having a side--that's where they run.
The mentally withdrawn one
Where is your girl when she mentally withdraws? She's in a different world. It's most likely her normal life isn't ideal (for more info, you can check out "how to make someone obsessed with you"), therefore you'd have to give her a world that is better than her private workings. Be that world.
If you guys want a "personality profile" covered in my next book about making women obsessed with you, please send me an email about your "problem" woman, and if it's a common personality profile--I'll add it into the book. You'll also benefit knowing you've helped your other fellow males, with their "problem" women; as well as my personalised help. These personality profiles are just one aspect/sneak peek of the book. To that one reader who asked if this could work for women attracting women: YES!
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