I recently met someone new and discovered he was using not only negging techniques on me, but techniques very similar to the ones I discuss here.
He seemed like a nice enough man, but I already knew he had dark interests. Unfortunately we had spent Valentine's day together, and that's when I began to notice him using these techniques on me. I was somewhat excited but another part of me grew resentful towards my Valentine's day date. I had to lie and say that I had a family dinner date.
I went back home and wondered if he was simply just doing all this as a way to get in bed with me. The main topic throughout our date was sex. Of course. Which is what got me wondering. When I change the topic--he'd go with it, then he'd turn it around to sex. The constant talk about sex turned me off, and that's what inspired this post. This doesn't just apply to me--it applies to anyone who practices these techniques to get what they want.
I cut him off but if his intentions were simply get in bed with me, then why does he have to go the extra mile for some sex? If he wanted do all this, then just make your move. You don't have to say x,y,z or strategically plan what you'd say to soothe my ego enough to open up my legs for you. When I practiced this, my intentions weren't sex. I love seducing and being seduced--penetrating the mind of my victim.
You have let anyone have your body, but never allow them to control your mind. If you let them have your body, you give them sex. However, if you let them have your mind and body--you give them your emotions, your ability to make proper decisions; you fall slave to them. You own your own mind--not anyone else.